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In Memoriam: Freddie Gruber

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  • Some of us Rush fan’s will remember Freddie as the guy who taught the worlds best drummer a thing or two. While Mr. Peart would admonish such hyperbole it is , none-the-less a poignant statement for us mere mortals.

    Freddie, you will be missed!

    Sxo

    Stephen McDonald
    Whitby On
    Canada

    Sindor@rogers.com

  • Alan Atwood says:

    Freddie Gruber and Buddy Rich were my very first role models as drummers and musicians. Later would come Neil Peart and Steve Smith, but Freddie and Buddy were my “Dynamic Duo” of drumming. I remember in high school watching films of Freddie play in a style all his own. Sometimes we would gather around the turntable in our bandroom and just take in such music that filled our minds and hearts with joy. Freddie will live on in the music and the lessons that are forever etched in the styles of those who have reaped the rewards of such a master. Thank you Freddie for sharing your talents with us all!

  • Well said to Neil. My father had a saying, when you have a full funeral, and friends gathered to celebrate your time here, what more can be said than, “You did good.” RIP.

  • Drum Stig says:

    An eloquent and loving tribute – well deserved….

  • Melissa Williamson says:

    Freddie educated and touched, so many in his life, and in turn, those folks went on to touch others, perhaps in ways Freddie would have never imagined. He lead a long and colorful life indeed, and for that, a celebration of his gifts (music of course,as well as his gift for helping folks “get out of their own way”)is a wonderful way to have him live on.

    For all those who were fortunate enough to learn from Freddie, become a part of his journey, my condolences for your loss, he made quite the impression on all those he met.

    “Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.” Eskimo Proverb.

    RIP Freddie Gruber, you will never be forgotten for you live on in all those you touched.

  • Jon R says:

    Well played, Mr. Gruber. The beat goes on…

  • Pat Tinney says:

    A wonderful tribute. I can say that Freddie’s teaching has elevated Neil’s playing style so much more, just when you thought that was not possible..

  • A very well written tribute to a legendary drummer/teacher who influenced many… RIP Freddie!

  • As s Rush fan of 30 years Neal Peart is one of my heroes,and argueably the greatest drummer in the world,so Mr Gruber was indeed a master to teach Neal a new direction in drumming and uplift his spirit to get him playing again,A true musical great will be sadly missed R.I.P

  • Ross Boden says:

    I am very sad to hear of Freddy’s passing. The world has lost a remarkable personality.

  • Mark McKenna says:

    It seems that God reaches down and touches certain people.Michael Jordan,Wayne Gretzky,Tiger Woods,Neil Peart,Hussein Bolt…… Individuals that are just a bit better at their chosen pursuit than,well,everybody else.Mr Gruber was one the early recipients of that honor.There is no greater act than that of a teacher.It means you have the virtue of sharing in your heart.Well done,and well spoken,Mr. Peart.The world has lost one of it’s Masters.Now God does’nt have to reach too far to touch Freddie again. Rest Easy Sir .

  • Lynn Eldredge says:

    Very nice. Thank you Neil Peart.

  • Steve says:

    A fitting tribute for a real musicians musician.

    Somewhere there is a hell of a jam session going on with yet another great sitting in.

    Thanks for keeping the beat Freddie.

  • I met Freddie some 15 years ago and had the pleasure of hanging with him several times here in Toronto and in LA. I’ll never forget the night we poured ourselves home at 3am to his house in Hollywood and though we were both quite drunk, he decided it was a perfect time for a drum lesson! Yikes! I wasn’t a student of Freddie’s, just a drummer friend but that was Freddie…always ready to share his love of drumming…even in the middle of the night!

    A great drummer and teacher, Freddie will be missed. Thank you, Neil for a lovely tribute.

  • Ken Daniels says:

    What a wonderful tribute. Freddie, you wielded drumsticks like a painter with a brush. You showed so many people the art form of drumming and your legacy will surely live on. Neil, thank you for introducing a generation to Freddie. Rest in Peace Freddie…

  • Mike Nolan says:

    You will be missed!! But you will live on in my heart mind and soul.R.I.P

  • Dan Burfield says:

    Unfortunately, I did not know Freddie personally. I only knew him vicariously through all of those that did have the wonderful fortune of knowing him and passing along his poignant intellect and intuitively natural insight to life. I could only imagine how much he will be missed by so many that were close, when I miss him, only through remote association. Thank you Freddie for giving so much to so many. And thank you Neil Peart for stating so clearly, what an absolute legend this man was that walked among us for over 84 years. You will be missed Freddie.

  • Choppy says:

    I will never forget the lesson you taught me, and I will forever share it on and on.

    “Students don’t come for whats here”,(Making guesture to his hands)

    “They come for whats in here.” (He points to his head)

    RIP Freddie Gruber

  • Joe Szilagy says:

    Very nice tribute Neil.

  • Keith Hammond says:

    Thanks Neil,wonderful words for a wonderful & inspiring drummer. Freddie’s words of wisdom have been a god send when looking for answers & inspiration in my playing, I wrote down just the other day ”the drum head is a dance floor” which I heard on an interview of his. I lost my drum teacher,best friend & mentor of 35 years in June this year, it seems some great drumming souls are leaving the party down here for that big one out there…..I saw some great footage of freddie & your self while trying to find a website or email address for freddie last sunday, I just needed to thank him! but I’m sure he knows, strange how you can feel for a person like Freddie without ever meeting….. Thanks again Neil & RIP Freddie….

  • Joe Szilagy says:

    Until I had read this very informative and moving tribute by Neil earlier this evening, I had known very little about Freddie Gruber. This is indeed both an education with regards to Freddie’s contributions to the world of drumming (particularly with regards to those students who would carry on some of the finer traditions of jazz stylings into their own individual playing), as well as a glimpse inside the soul of the man himself.

  • Dibber says:

    Thanks, Freddie…

    For your vast insight and generosity throughout your career in the drumming world. There will never be another like you, and the world owes you a debt of gratitude!!

    RIP, my drumming confidant. We shall continue your legacy, sir.

    Christopher Michael

  • Bechara Dertkigil says:

    The professor of the Professor…..someone who need to be honored in every moment, someone who will be missed in every beat he left to us.

    Freddie is now on the team Up in the Drummers Paradise.
    RIP.

  • Terry Witte says:

    Neil , you are now my Freddie Grubber. I am 46 years old playing since I was 5 years. Of course this is the best memeorial Obituary any of us will ever read. My father passed away Sept 18th 2011 and my bass player of 20 years committed suicide on Sept 29th 2011. So I understand your loss. I know Freddie is up there with Buddy Rich and the heavens hear drums.May you rest in peace and my god hold you in his arms

    Terrance M Witte
    Aurora,IL

  • Thank your for sharing that wonderful story, Neil. Freddie had an interesting life! I’ve also met several smokers that were healthy into their 80s. I always made a point of asking about their diets. The link seemed to be that they avoided dairy products. Pick Cheese or Chesterfields, but not both. I am sorry for your loss and very glad that you had a chance to absorb some of Freddie’s spirit while he was here. Peace and Petunias, Val

  • Bob Kline says:

    We all have our Freddie Gruber stories but ‘ll save those and simply say that after playing the drums for 15 years, and studying with some of the greats, I ran into Freddie in the late 70′s in L.A. – He became more than a great mentor, he became a great friend. I quickly realized that Freddie’s sense of fluidity, particularly with respect to time applied to his personal life as well, so I always took his last teaching slot at around 9:00 or 10:00 pm. Usually we hung out for several hours, sometimes he was stoned sometimes not, but somewhere areound midnight or 1:00 am, we would find our way to the drum set. I have to say, I learned just as much hanging out with him as I did at the drum kit, which was considerable. I wasn’t one of his heavy weight students, just some guy making a living playing club dates and tours, but for him it was all about, music, fluidity, and “fixing you” as he would say. Freddie was the best: Kind,crazy, generous, ifninitely interesting and an absolute zen master of drumming. There will never be another like him. He changed my life just as I’m sure he did for all others who were priviledged to study with him and call him a friend.

  • Jay Jackson says:

    When I first saw Freddie giving Neil lessons,I wondered how he would sound afterwards. As always,I was impressed, but Freddie seemed to touch Neil BEYOND the kit. Neil seemed to become even wiser as a person having known Freddie in a way that I,too,can appreciate,getting to “hang” with older musicians who happen to be teachers. The world needs more Freddie-like people. People who march to their own beat (pun intended) and who stress being an individual rather than just another cookie-cutter player.

    He has passed the torch and we will make it burn brighter! Thank-you,Freddie!

  • TOM METZ says:

    Condolences to you regarding your friend.
    RIP Freddie

  • J Bailey says:

    A man who touched the world has left us, but that with which he touched us remains forever. Thanks, Freddie.

  • Jim Byrne says:

    Neil….Very weel written, you are growing as a writer, and we Rush fans and simple humans thank you for sharing your gifts and talents with us. As you know your “Best” writings are of what you know, or what is close to you, it was obvious from reading this that Freddie had a profound effect on you not only professionally (as we have heard), but personaly as well. I am happy for you; and us that you met Mr. Gruber, and Thank you Freddie for sharing your talent with the world…When it’s time..will you take over teaching others where he left off Neil? Many of us including my 6 year old budding drummer grandson can only hope & dream…
    Warm Regards,
    Jim Byrne
    Sacramento, CA.

  • Gary Sims says:

    Sad to hear of the passing of Freddie Gruber. I got to know him through the writings of Neil Peart and growing up as an early drummer with the knowledge of him. I had the pleasure of speaking with him through an associate and looked forward to it each time. He has always had a special place in my life’s thinking. You will be greatly missed. Thanks for sharing this tribute to the legend. Rest in peace Freddie!

  • Jake Lucas says:

    Neil’s words are almost as eloquent as Freddies ol’ soft shoe was elegant. He will live on through those he inspired for generations to come.

  • Tom Wallace says:

    “Without ever trying to disrupt a particular drummer’s ‘character’, he helped each student discover, express and refine his own individual voice.” Those words perfectly describe what an art/music/drum teacher is all about. Freddie must have been a blessing in so many students’ lives. Wish I could have met him. All the best to his family and friends.

  • Steve Michaels says:

    I was not a friend or a student. I was neither acquaintance nor relation. I knew of the man through the writing and stories of others. His existence enamored and enhanced the lives of many. For that the world has been changed and his life will be celebrated.

  • Charles Eckhardt says:

    Thanks so much Neil for the eloquent words for Freddie. I know may Rush fans became instant Gruber
    fans after your touching interview in Beyond the Lighted Stage! I lost my 87 year old mom five days after Freddie passed so will always remember both as the Octobers of the future come and go.

  • Keith Hudock says:

    May there be new rhythms for you in the next level, Freddy. You will be missed more than you could ever imagine.

  • Roman Dino says:

    One could draw a parallel between Freddy’s teaching philosophy and our very life. A drum stick stroke has a beginning, followed by a short tenure which precedes an abrupt ending; the resultant percussive strike. A person’s life begins with birth, followed by a tenure which precedes inevitable death. This tenure is often depicted on a headstone or marker following a person’s passing as a dash between two dates. Regardless of the length of time between birth and death, it’s that dash that represents the actual life itself. Death will always be the end result, but it is up to the living individual to make that “dash” count for something, to fulfill its own meaning. Freddy applied this to drumming. He focused on the “non-note” portion, since this consumes the majority of a drummer’s time. The inevitable percussive strike can only be enhanced by a definitive, meaningful preceding stroke; that “dance”, as Freddy referred to it. Thank you, Freddy, for a profound lesson that applies to us all, drummers, and non-drummers. God Speed!

  • Ray B. says:

    A class act all the way. RIP Freddie

  • David Coffey says:

    Lets all stop and think of the ones that have touched us in many ways. My heart is with all how stop to read and share, but especially Neil for giving this Memoriam. I can only imagine how difficult this time is for you. Thanks for the words and Please…Keep the sticks move’n. You are our, our kids, Freddy and Buddy.

  • All of us remember our first inspiration to pick up a pair of drum sticks. As we grew in our playing, that first inspiration evolved into ever higher aspirations. Just as Neil Peart has served as an inspiration to all of us, Freddie Grubber embodied the passion and sheer enjoyment of just playing. Many of us were introduced to Freddie through Neil, whether through Neil’s writing or video’s. We all take solace in knowing Freddie lived life on his own terms. Right or wrong, it was what it was. His life was a lesson to us all, drummer or not, he left his impression on everyone he met. What a fine tribute to a man that clearly inspired those that inspire others. Thank you Neil. Freddie, you will be dearly missed.

  • Corby Robbins says:

    It is sad to know,just as someone was introducing you to a person,through their writing,that the person you were getting to know,and yearning to know more of,was,sadly, leaving our world.My condolences go out to his friends,family and those of us who can only know him through his works and stories.The world is certainly poorer without this unusually special man.Godspeed ,Freddy. May your legacy live on through all whom you touched,taught and shared your wit and wisdom!

  • 2112 Star Man says:

    A wonderfully gifted human who shared his gift with many.

  • Dave Wachowiak says:

    Well put Neil. The Jazz legends that leave us, leave us with a wealth of knowledge, the paraddidles, rudiments, triplets and that amazing orbital motion.
    Freddies up there with Buddy working on new stuff,,,,,can’t wait to hear it!

  • Lee Lankford says:

    Neil, Thank you for sharing your heart and mind with us all. I believe 100% that you are a inspiration in so many peoples heart as was Freddy to yours. I never had the opprotunity to meet him on this earth. I’m sure i will meet him on the other side. We drummers like to hang togther.As for passing on the torch I beleive its your turn! IT IS WHAT IT IS !!!! Thanks Neil for all you do.. Rest in Peace Freddy..

  • The unparalleled musician and drummer accomplishments by Mr.Freddy Gruber certainly have transcended a tremendous legacy through a litany of other great musicians that truly become “Professors on the drum kit”. None other than Mr. Neil Peart “who got out of his own way” because of Mr. Gruber’s tutelage. Mr. Peart improved exponentially and so did many other great drummer maestros who had the privilege of honing their talents because of Freddy Gruber. Music is better place because of him. His influence and invention caused the once mediocre “beat keeper” hidden behind the band to evolve into a symphonic force that audibly moved to the forefront of the melodies that we hear today. “The beat” he created is now a necessary part in the harmonic sounds familiar to any who listens to music. He was a great pioneer who discovered that simple sounds of wooden sticks thumping on drum heads and brass plates can become complex innuendos of musical vitality that enlighten the heart and soul of an audience. His music will live on in all those who remember him and anyone who creates musical beats on account of his discoveries. “Life is what it is”, but without Freddy drumming and music “would have been what it was”. Freddy you will be missed, but not forgotten. Thank you for all that you did for music and you along with all the other great musician and composers long since past have made our world a little better place.

  • Brian French says:

    I’m sorry to say that I only “knew” Freddie through his association with Neil but I could certainly see and hear and appreciate the effects of that. The world is certainly poorer for the loss of someone who can make those kind of contributions. RIP, Freddie

  • Scott Johnson says:

    Very touching. Thanks, Neil, for such a deeply thought out piece on the life and times of Freddie Gruber. He will be missed. Rest in piece, Freddie. You’ve earned it.

  • John Curtis says:

    I had the pleasure of knowing Freddie for the last 20 yrs as his water delivery man. Over the last 10 years we became friendly. He would call me and I would deliver to him in the afternoon,(which was morning for him!)He would make coffee, have a cigarette and we would talk for quite a while until I had to get back to work. He was warm, funny and most importantly, genuine. He loved life and enjoyed it to the fullest. I will always cherish our conversations, it is easy to see why he had so many friends and fans. Also I have to mention Cindy, who touched me greatly with her love and devotion to Freddie. We all miss you Freddie!

  • Sean Harriman says:

    Thank You Neil for sharing thoughts of your friend Freddy. What a special person he is. My drumming changed drastically for the better after I started thinking of it as “a dance”. He always had a way of explaining what was going on in a drummers mind when the drummer couldn’t explain it himself. He was light years ahead of his time. “There are no straight lines in nature” is my favorite quote of his.

  • A great piece by a great drummer about a great teacher. For another great story about Freddie Gruber by one of his special students go to: http://www.clazzicaldrums.com and read “Remembering Freddie Gruber” by Peter Lambert Smith